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writes:well am 22 years old female and am a good looking girl my problem is that i get so confused in front of good looking guys i mean i show that am so intrested and i dont wanna be that way , then when the moment passes i go crazy and blame my self for every thing i say, i really hate the kind of girls that judge guys according to their looks and i dont wanna look stupid most of the time , plz any advices to play cool no matter how the guy is cute becoz guys seem to like me when i show that am not intrested ,,,,,,,,,,,, plz heeeeeeeeeeeeeeelp Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): I'm a bit on the shy side, so I often don't say a whole lot when I meet good looking guys. I mean, I do talk, but don't ramble or give too much away about yourself. Ask them some questions and just smile and look at them, look away...Drives them nuts because they think you're all mysterious. And even though on the inside you're going "oh man, look at those eyes/that smile" you still come across as being in control :) And don't beat yourself up about saying stupid things, everyone does it! The guy is probably doing the same to himself about something he said to you and which you didn't even notice. I met this gorgeous guy a month ago (turns out he does modelling for some extra cash) and I thought I was making a complete idiot of myself but turns out he thought he was coming across badly to me and thought I was really cool. So even with the best looking guys, and even if you feel like you're stuffing it up, just take a deep breath, relax and keep up your confidence!
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 - may sound gay but maybe just imagine yourself talking to a guy ... ya know how i got good at chatting to guys.. i watched loads and loads of films :).. and i was like that's how they do it .. thats how im going to do it (mainly romantics) and well .. i think that if you talk to them like they're a girl .. like your really close buds with them dont be afraid and be confident all should go to plan .. so heres the advice .. watch how other people do it .. maybe you could learn some things.. or just be confident be yourself and make sure you look and feel great because thts the key to confidence:)x
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