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How can I get my bf to talk to me about issues in our relationship?

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Question - (19 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *onfusedlover10 writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. I truly love him with all of my heart. We've had our ups and downs within these months but we've also conquered them somehow.

It's very hard to talk to him about things that go through my mind pertaining to us and how I feel about certain things. I try to talk to him but it's like talking to myself because he doesn't really give a response, which is what I'm looking for.

I just want to know what goes on in his mind and the only way I can find out is by going through his phone sometimes. I hate going through his phone because I have found something that I wished I didn't, but we've discussed it and now it's in the past, but yet I still wonder about it from time to time. How can I get him to interact with me when I'm trying to have a conversation with him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011):

try talking to him in the way he wants to be spoken to.If he likes taking things easy even when they are serious then talk to him in that way then he will listen.hope for the best.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011):

I had exactly the same problem with my fella of 6 months so last week i just came out with it and said - i have known you for 6 months now and i have no idea how you feel about me - and he said i am really comfy sitting here and i love coming down to see you - wasn't much but made me feel better, some guys will just not show their feelings and it's really frustrating as i am crazy about him.

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