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writes:Lately, I've been asking myself should I still become happier than this? I am happy with my kids but sometimes I wish there's more than the three of us. The problem is, there's no chance nor time for dating. The guy I was initially interested in seem not be interested or have lost interest. I tried online dating but could not sustain it because there's just too much crap (excuse the french) it's difficult to spot the right one to spend more "cybertime" with. If I am younger I'd be more daring or would look for fun but I am past that stage. I just want someome to talk to. So how would I find that, online and in real time/life? Answer seems elusive lol Reply to this Question
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reader, rocknroll  +, writes (24 July 2009):
You have needs just as we have needs that only a partner can satisfy. Finding the best partner starts with frogs and dansels in distress it seems. It takes time and it can be painful, depending on how deep and connected you are willing to seek.For online, I have to express that they can be pleasant, but both men and women have to be cautious for scams.Public is by far the best.Local communities for women might help the best, at least you could bring the kids with other members and go to places that have men, or at least men that can pleasantly talk.
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reader, alwaysreadyandwilling  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 I love online dating,but yes its true that most are cheaters,jokers,dirty phone pic collectors and can be anyone they want to be and say anything you want to hear. They could be online as single,then look their partner in the eye as if nothing is happening.I have had fantastic times and seen things you would never think about. When its time to find a real one,i will retire and look in the real world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): See, it is difficult to find but should be reliable
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): i know its difficult having children but you must find time to go out and enjoy life,get a babysitter in say once a month and go let your hair down be you and not just a fulltime mum,there is so much out there you have to go get whatever you want it wont come to you
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