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writes:dear cupid, i fell in love to a man that got married, I really love him, what will I do, I know he will never be mine - but I'm really crazy about him, and why if the man fell in love with me deeply I will not like him any more? what do I do, I can't find perfect relationship...
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reader, Racky +, writes (3 September 2008):
 hi chick it may seem like the end at the moment, i have been there not married man but someone i thought i couldn't live without. time will pass and it will get easier concentrate on having fun and let love come in its own time i met my partner throught the guy i thought i needed so love really exists but relationships need work they not all perfect but they can be worked on together. hope this help chick xxx
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 You don't find the perfect relationship, you make it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Sorry to burst your bubble but there is no such thing as the perfect relationship!
Not one relationship is plain sailing, some are easier than others but they all take some hard work to make them seem perfect!!!
You can only learn from this experience and move on, there's plenty of other guys out there more worthy of you than that other guy!!
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reader, Angel dust  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 hi sweetie... Im so sorry for you, its understandable that your confused right now. If this man got married with another woman, he doesnt love you enough... i would leave him to live his new life now. Could it be that you have the wrong impression about relationships? There is no such a perfect relationship like we see in films... the quicker you accept this the quicker you feel less pressurised to find the perfect relationship. Dont be in love with a perfect relationship just be yourself and let nature takes its place. Once you relax about having the perfect relationship you ll be more your self that will attract the right man for you.
Good luck sweetie :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Hi Love,
Your sad at the moment and canot see a way forward, Is there such a thing as a perfect relationship as to be perfect it has to be perfect in your eyes, And there is always a second person to think about, Im 45 hunny and ive just found a good relationship ive been in for 2yrs nearly but life is not perfect, So I really dont think its perfection your looking for.
If I understand your question correctly you feel great love for this man who has married but if he were to love you then your feelings would change and you would not feel for him the way you do now as he would be yours. If any of that is wrong Im sorry just trying to understand hunny.
I think at the moment you need to look at yourself and how you feel about you, Do you care for yourself are you happy with the person you are as this can have an affect on how you percieve others as well.
You are young im sorry to hear of your sadness but in time love things will change and hopefully you will find someone who cares for you as much as you do them, I hope this helps a little take care love MANDY xxxxxxxxxxx
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