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writes:I am in Western Australia and wondering how do you go about finding a relationship councillor for myself and my boyfriend?I contacted Relationships Australia but we can't see someone from there for many weeks and I really don't want to wait that long, or is there generally always a wait like that?I also looked in the phone book and there are quite a few but how do I know which would be good or appropriate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the tips. I have already spoken with Relationships Australia and can probably see someone there in a few weeks. Since that was about a week ago already I might just wait and see how that is, for now anyway. Thanks again.
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reader, noonespecial2 +, writes (3 July 2009):
Hi,
You can begin by phoning one and having a chat to them on the phone. If they are willing to do this, that is a good sign. They will ask you to briefly explain the issues and you will get a feel as to whether you think they uinderstand what you are saying.
A good counsellor leaves you feeling understood and that they understand your issues. You should leave feeling positive and hopeful.
Lifeline offers face to face counselling and some church groups. You can also go to your GP and explain what is going on and you may be entitled to 6 - 12 free sessions with a Psychologist.
You could also phone relationships Australia and ask for them to contact you if there is a cancellation.
Normally cheaper counselling services such as Lifeline, centrecare and Relationships Australia have a waiting list because their charges are based on your earnings. Also some good Psychologists and counsellors have a waiting list.
You mentioned that you looked in the phone book and there were quite a few, ask to speak to them on the phone. Tell them briefly what the issues are and ask them if they have had experience with those sort of issues before. Some have in their listings what they specialise in.
I hope this is helpful.
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