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writes:I am in Western Australia and wondering how do you go about finding a relationship councillor for myself and my boyfriend?I contacted Relationships Australia but we can't see someone from there for many weeks and I really don't want to wait that long, or is there generally always a wait like that?I also looked in the phone book and there are quite a few but how do I know which would be good or appropriate? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the tips. I have already spoken with Relationships Australia and can probably see someone there in a few weeks. Since that was about a week ago already I might just wait and see how that is, for now anyway. Thanks again.
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reader, noonespecial2 +, writes (3 July 2009):
Hi,
You can begin by phoning one and having a chat to them on the phone. If they are willing to do this, that is a good sign. They will ask you to briefly explain the issues and you will get a feel as to whether you think they uinderstand what you are saying.
A good counsellor leaves you feeling understood and that they understand your issues. You should leave feeling positive and hopeful.
Lifeline offers face to face counselling and some church groups. You can also go to your GP and explain what is going on and you may be entitled to 6 - 12 free sessions with a Psychologist.
You could also phone relationships Australia and ask for them to contact you if there is a cancellation.
Normally cheaper counselling services such as Lifeline, centrecare and Relationships Australia have a waiting list because their charges are based on your earnings. Also some good Psychologists and counsellors have a waiting list.
You mentioned that you looked in the phone book and there were quite a few, ask to speak to them on the phone. Tell them briefly what the issues are and ask them if they have had experience with those sort of issues before. Some have in their listings what they specialise in.
I hope this is helpful.
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (2 July 2009):
 I'm from the US, but yes, usually there are usually long waiting lists but you can call several and request they call you if there are any cancellations. Finding a good one can be tricky and you don't want to stay with one that you don't feel comfortable with but at least it's a start. Schedule a few sessions with a couple of different ones (insurance often covers up to 30 visits a year).
Also look online and they have pictures and areas of specialty and how long they've been practicing. Try to contact the ones that are younger- they are usually building their book of clients and may be able to fit you in sooner. My sister was having marital problems and it took a month to get a session and she found that a younger female therapist was more effective for her situation and she found her online. She was able to fit my sister in on a weekly basis where many can only see you monthly.
I would also call several ones from the phone book and see which ones call you back that day- they are usually the ones that aren't so established and booked. Experience does not always equate with good therapy. Good luck.
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