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How can I deal with his irrational moods?

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Question - (11 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm having quite a big problem with my boyfriend at the moment.

We've been together over a year, and have always got on dead well, but recently he's started being so moody and it's hard to be around him. No matter what I say, he thinks so much into it and gets the wrong impression.

It's getting me down, because we always worked so well in the past.

How can I deal with these irrational moods?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (13 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIt is a phase in his life.Like a fisherman , when they want to go out to fish , they will have to see the weather report. If it is rainy there, stay at home , avoid going there.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

Have you asked him about it, but in a non accusatory way?

Such as, "it makes me upset when you aren't happy, is there anything I can do to help?" Then if he denies it, perhaps you could cite some examples of times he has been irrational.

Maybe he is insecure about something, but you can only find out by asking him.

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A female reader, Butterfly816 Canada +, writes (13 January 2008):

I know what you mean, you probably feel like you can't say anything right so don't say anything at all - maybe go for days angry?

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