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writes:I have a a girlfriend that I adore but we argue all the time about me yelling at her and that I don't pay attention. How can I be more romatic so she thinks that i love her and care. We have been off and on for a year and i Still don't understand what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (17 August 2008):
 First of all you should never yell at her if you are and second of all if she is telling you that you dont pay attention to her then you probley dont. You may not realize it but she is telling you cause she cares and dont want it to end. I am having the exact same problems with my husband so you are hearing the girls side of the story. When she talks you need to give her your full attention not your undivided attention. Turn off the TV pause the vidio game, or even go to the other room so you can talk without interuption, and ABSALUTLY NO YELLING at all.
Take it from somebody who knows even when you think your not yelling (even a slite raise or change in your tone) can seem like your yelling at her even when you are not.
Take care and GOD Bless.
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reader, lois-mcphee  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 if you love this woman then she should realize that you do just tell her more often when you two are feeling calm and relaxed theres nothing you can really do if you love this woman she should know that and if she doent then thats maybe because she feels she needs more affection fromyou..try being a little romantic with her i dosent help much by saying
"we argue all the time"...
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reader, ask sweeney :) +, writes (16 August 2008):
 tell her in deep detail, how you really feel about her, and tell her that everything your saying is coming from your heart
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