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writes:Me and my boyfriend were going to get married but he decided not to. He told me he didn't love me but he liked me a lot.He is not the same, he doesn't call me anymore and he tells me he loves me but i don't believe him. I'm still with him but i don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I'm slightly confused - you say he told you he didn't love you and he tells you he loves you. Is he confused as well? Are you confused also?
Whatever, he's messing you about ans if I were you I'd feel grateful. Getting married is a big step, and if I had my time over again I doubt that I'd marry before the age of 30. In fact, with the wonderful thing that is hindsight, I'd avoid it altogether and save myself a small fortune on divorce lawyers fees and relinquished assets amd buy myself a villa in the sun and a superyacht instead.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Give him some space and time for him to think over.
You need to be prepared for the worst scenario.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I think deep in your heart, you know what to do... it may be hard, but you gotta leave him.
He called off the wedding and told you he doesn't love you yet likes you a lot. I think he's with you until he finds someone else who he'll like better.
Sorry, I know it's hard, but you gotta find someone better than him. You deserve better.
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