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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now, and he expressed to me a few days ago that he's essentially bored with our sex life, after about 2 months of our frequency of having sex decreasing more and more. So I suggested that we try new things that i was completely open to experimenting with him, but when i asked him what he was interested in and if he had any fantasies he wanted full-filled he just shrugged and said he didnt know. ive tried to get him interested in going to a sex store or looking at stuff we can try but he still doesnt seem interested. I have much more sexual experience than him and i worry that maybe he wants to play around with other men as tends to be the case in my personal experiences. What can i do to get him more interested in re-igniting what was once an amazing sex life?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 September 2010):
 Are you saying he wants a threesome with another man, or that he wants to mess around with a dude solo?? Shed some light on that dear..Have you taken the sex all over the place? The backseat of a car, beach, park late at night, throwing a mattress in the bed of his truck driving somewhere secluded and doing it under the stars, sitting on top of the washer, a tent, in a hot tub or jacuzzi tub that's a steamy one, and in the shower...etc. Guys are a little overwhelmed when it comes to the sex shop they don't know what half that crap is except for the magazine and porn video section. I've experimented with cock and vibrating tongue rings, don't waste your money. Now, the naughty costume section I've got nothing but rave reviews...One time i bought the school girl outfit, bought ribbon for my pigtails, and a ruler so I can be spanked with. Waited till my boyfriend at the time came home dressed up lying across his bed, talk about happy to see me. Use your imagination, do a french maid with a duster, a nurse, police officer, cow girl, the list is endless especially with Halloween coming up. Try a whip cream bikini (thank you Varsity Blues), on here a saw one posting of pouring a little honey on your boobs, a blow job with Pop Rocks in your mouth or an ice cube..
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