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writes: Serious Health Issues caused by negative thinking due to my new girlfriend with an annoying past. I like her, she has had a bad past ( wrong friendships with horrible guys, kissed a few of my friends, and people have had alot of negative things to say ) I like her i want to make it work but this negative thinking is bad for my health as i spoke with a doctor. I guess im not as mentally tough and I dont know what to do, i know i cant look to her past but it annoys me i cant shake it. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): Her past behaviours are something she cannot go back and change and you know this. I don't think you are the right person to be in her life because I feel that no matter what, if it's right and you feel good about this relationship, things like this can get worked through without it becoming an issue. You can't get past this and look what it has caused for you. I suggest you come clean and 'cut her loose'. There are available men out there that would not 'judge' her and accept her as is. Be fair to her, and to yourself. There is no point in being with a female you are having a difficult time respecting and trusting...the two key foundational basics of a healthy relationship.
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