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writes:i have a problem in my school classes see this year i have classes with rough thuggish boys that mess with people and talk about them and i drown myself out by not participating or talking trying to avoid them but it never work i get so nervous that i start to shake and back down and don't do anything and this stuff is affecting my life and grades because of other peoples childish mouths but that what most boys do, the ones in my classes like to call you out and talk about you and think its funny but it hurts and make me mad but i don't really say anything back i juss laugh with the rest of the class and try to shake it off but i get embarrased and feel shamed and stupid because i didn't stand up for myself, and try to ignore them but then i feel okward embarrased and ashamed, sometimes i don't even wanna go to school because of this, what can i do to make this situation better for myself Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Don't you tell the school administration what's going on and how these thugs are making school impossible for a good many other people, not just you?
If I were you TODAY I would call the police if they lay a hand on you or anyone else in the school. I would also lay an assault charge on them and take them to court.
You have to fight these people now somehow or they'll rule your mind for the rest of your days because you will berate yourself for not stopping their antics and somewhat deadly behavior (some kids commit suicide from the taunts).
Check out:
http://www.bullying.org/
http://www.google.com/search?q=bullying&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a
FIGHT BACK!!! Smartly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Dont feel ashamed, embarassed, or bad at all. You should feel proud that you are better than those stupid useless bastards. They are just wretches upon society and will never accomplish anything with their lives. Thats why they try to put down people like you, because they know you will go far in life and accomplish things they couldnt even imagine. You are better than them in every single way. Where are any of your teachers during all this? Try to talk to the other kids they bully and talk to the teachers. Or have the teachers see these idiots in the act and get these morons expelled. As hard as it is, just know deep down that their insults dont mean anything and that you are always better than them. Ignore them, worry about living your life, and never let them interfere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): Ignoring them to a degree may provoke them into picking on you more. Next time they call you out, provide a comeback about something awkward/funny about them.
If the boys are doing this to the point of interuppting class, tell the teacher once the class is over and discuss it with him/her.
Above all, don't sweat the small stuff, focus on your studies and don't let their words hurt you, life rewards the studier.
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