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writes:I am in love with one girl which I had known for 4 years. At the current moment, we are very close friends. I had always wanted to start a relationship with her, however, I got this feeling that she just treats me as a good friend and afraid that she might reject me. When this happens, I may lose a very close friend. She is really important to me and I don't want to lose her in any way. Can anyone help me with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, iluvsox  +, writes (24 May 2009):
I don't mean to be a pessimist or anything, but I think your "love" may be just a strong connection and infatuation with this friend. You have to understand that for love to happen, it has to be both ways and that the love has to bud and grow within said relationship.
All you can really do is talk to her about it. I wouldn't be blunt and say "(insert her name here), I really like you." I would just hint at it and say stuff like "I really enjoy your company." and just be more flirty.
Really, talking about stuff like that and get stuff on the table is the best thing to do. If she happens to not like you like that, the better you learn sooner rather than later. If you can figure out or not if she likes you, you can then go about dating her or moving on.
If you are as close with her as you say you are, she'll talk to you about it and no matter what happens, you two will remain close :-)
Good luck! Message me if you need any more advice!
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