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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well i got this lads numba that i sort of liked. weve been txtin each other 4 about a week or so. we dont talk in school. hes on my bus and we exchange glances etc but thats it. im happy with this. just txting and eye contact. he doesnt seem to be. he wants to meet up. and im really not sure if i want to. i get really nervous and scared around guys. im not sure if i want to get involved with anyone either. overall im just scared i guess. i dont want to hurt him but i really dont think i want to meet up with him. AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!! help me!! what can i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Meet him - and see how things are in person. You never know, he may impress you beyond your wildest dreams.
Going out for a coffee or something is no big deal, but it can tell you a lot about him and yourself.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 You are exactly what a lot of guys are looking for, and exactly what a lot of girls are NOT.
You are an individual and unique in your own way, so it is not a bad thing that you don't want to meet up with him
What you need to figure out, is WHAT it is that you are afraid of.
Are you afraid of rejection?
Are you afraid that he won't like the real you?
Are you self conscious about something?
What?
This guy is obviously interested if he wants to meet up with you. Maybe he feels that he needs to get to know you better because phones are very restrictive when it comes to this.
If i were you, i'd ask for a little more time, and figure out why you DON't want to meet him.
You said you like him. Would you like to eventually have a relationship with him?
Only one thing is sure, and that is, that sometimes we have to take risks?
Good luck.
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