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writes: hello...I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend at the moment! I'm not really sure what he wants in the sense of space and the kind of relationship he wants! I think I might be a bit too worried about certain things like thinking he might have feelings for someone else but he is too scared to break up with me.I really want to make him happy but I don't know how to give him space without me feeling he might not want me anymore. How can I stop my emotions taking over and blowing things out of proportion? I feel I might be making my self sick with worry. How can I stop that and give him space at the same time? x clare Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2005): Hi Clare, remember this, for everything there is a reason, so if he said to you that he needed space, you need to know why he needs space in the first place.You are not being worried, you are caring about the one you love the most and that's wonderful, I pressume you know this boy well enough to find out things just by looking into his eyes whe you see him, look at his actions, look at his eye contact with you, those things are the first sings in a typical guy that he is hiding something from telling you. Why worrying so so much, when you can just sit and talk to him and let him know how you feel, if he loves you he will explain and you will see why the space needed.Once that, it will jump to the next chapter.I hope I help in anyways...Matt,20
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