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writes: ive been in a relationship with this guy 5months i know i love him and want to be with him but things have changed somemuch between us the past month, im really worried that things are not going to last!since the day we got together we moved straight in together as i was just kicked out of my mum place, things were perfect he loved me so much and it always shown. he used to kiss an cuddle me all the time but since we've moved into our own place, if he goes out he'll be out for a few hours then comes home and sits in front of the pc all night, how do i make him see i feel neglected without him taking it the wrong was and him think im just moaning at him!? please help i have no one else to talk to i feel like im always on my own.
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reader, shaun john +, writes (13 January 2006):
Hi, it sounds to me like needs to realise what he has before he loses it, im sure he doesnt want to lose you but maybe he see's you as part of the scenery, your there regardless of whether he goes out or is in. He need to learn that a relationship is a two way thing, that you both have feelings, so he needs to wake up and pay you the attention you deserve.
try going out with friends more, have some fun, show him you are a person who has a life to and you require the same things he does, attention, love and to be held and paid attention to somtimes. It might make him see what he is missing out on, and it will give you the opportunity to tell him, why your doing it. because you are both equal and deserve mutual respect and trust, this is what a successful relationship is all about.
hope he realises before its to late.
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