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He thinks I cheated but I didn't! What can I do to get him back?

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Question - (14 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I need advice... Me and my boyfriend of 3 years (as of January 12,2007) broke up this past Sunday night. Okay the story... my cousins ex-boyfriend goes to the same college I do. On the first week of school (January 7) he's been trying to talk to me. So one day we were talking and I just gave him my cell number, cause I was only planning to be friends with him and he knows I have a boyfriend and he knows him.

Okay so lately he's been calling me alot (blocking his number). I told my boyfriend about it. He was pissed. He wanted to know how my cousins ex got my number and I said "my friend Krystal". She does stuff like that. But when I said that, I was lying to my boyfriend. And he decided to break up with me because I wouldnt give him Krystals number. He kept begging me why, I said "it will make matters worse".The part that really made him mad was that all those times that my cousins ex called me and blocked his number, I knew it was him and therefore I knew what his real number was.

He thinks I cheated,but I didnt and I swore to him I didnt. So when he broke it off with me, he told me not to call him anymore (at his dad's house, his cousin's cell phone, her boyfriends cell etc.What should I do??? He wont even accept my calls. What is the possibility we will hook back up?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008):

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Thanks You Guys for the advice. As of right now, were back together and talking really well.I called him (my boyfriend)first, which was Tuesday morning.On Monday, I told my parents we had broke up and they was like dont worry. He'll call you if you are meant to be. But instead I called him back on (Tuesday) to see if he was still coming to pick me up once he got off work, and he said "yea" he still wanted to see me. So, I went to his house and we spent the evening talking about (this situation) and he decided to give me another chance even though I didn't do anything wrong. I am so happy!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

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Thanks for the reponse. Anymore responses anyone?? I will greatly appreciate it!!!

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A female reader, CaliGurl United States +, writes (15 January 2008):

Wow after three years together I'm sure you thought little things like this wouldn't be enough to cause a breakup! Obviously he has trust issues otherwise he would not have let it become such a huge problem. I don't know all the details but perhaps he has reasons to have trust issues. You admit you lied and said your friend gave him your number, so why do you feel that you couldn't be honest and just tell him that you have him the number. I mean after all there's nothing wrong with the reason you gave it to him in the first place, to be friends. Eventually you will speak to your ex again and when you do you need to be honest with him and just tell him the truth. Maybe you love him and if that's the case then people who love have no reason to hurt! He is going to have to learn to trust you but at the same time you need to stop lying regardless of how tiny of a lie it seems. If he really cares he might very well give you another chance, and I hope he does.

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