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writes: My boyfriend of almost a year broke it off with me. This came as a shock. At first he said that we may get back together. He just couldn't picture spending the rest of his life with me, and he needed time to think. So, after 3 weeks of him saying the same thing, I finally told him that I need closure. So, now I know that we are not getting back together. He says that right now "its just not there". But, it was 2 months ago when he was talking of marrying me and saying how happy he was and in love with me he was. What the hell happened? How do I move on? I am hanging with friends but I will have to see him all the time and that is so hard. Help me? I know that I got insecure for a month. But, I had been patient with him previously when he was feeling that way. He said that made his feelings change for me now? I need help coping with this. I want to let him go. He just was everything I had been hoping for. I am 28 by the way.
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reader, British Lad  +, writes (13 December 2006):
i know exactly how you are feeling and it hurts so much. If you want him back, try meeting up with him and show to him how much fun you 2 can have together. Hopefully this will make him realise he made a mistake. If you have already made a decision and want to move on, all i can suggest is spending time with your friends and make the most of your time with them Also, go out and meet new people, this should take your mind off things but it will take a while for you to fully forget about him.
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