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writes:A man i have been seeing Since Nov told me I was a valued friend and he told me I increase the Value of his life. Does that mean he loves me or likes me as a really good friend? We are not exculsive and I know he sees another girl. He does not know I know. So I wonder what he means by this, he is very loving with me. Advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 "told me I was a valued friend and he told me I increase the Value of his life" Did he actually say these words to you? Who talks this way? Is English not his first language? I have no idea what he means by this so I would ask him directly 'what do you mean?' I wonder why you would continue seeing him when you know he is seeing "another girl" while he is seeing you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): It means if he's ever kidnapped then the ransom will be higher because he knows you.
Janta the only person who can answer that question is him. So you should talk to him and ask him how he feels about you.
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reader, Tifa02  +, writes (27 February 2011):
 So I am guessing that he really cares about you but not in the 'one day I'll marry you' kind of way. Guys might not be simple creatures but they usually say what they mean.But are you a valued friend or a friend with benifits he values? If he is seeing someone else and not openly told you about it, what else or who else is he hiding? You can try openly asking him if he wants to go to the next level and be steady with you, only you, no third parties involved but that might not end the way you hope.He is not ready for a serious or stable relationship so unless you don't mind a casual fling and being the booty call (Perhaps when someone else is not available), thank him and move on! There are many men out there who want a relationship with one woman and only one woman at a time.
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