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*eebee
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years but he wont move our relationship forward and live together. i'm 30 he's 31 and i have a son who is 12. We have discussed it several times but now he says he doesn't want to live with me or have children till he's 35. I had an abortion 2 years ago which i haven't really come to terms with and it is an issue in our relationship, i wanted to keep the baby. i would like my son to have siblings and my bf knows this. He's recently told me he doesn't know if we'll be together in 5 years time which has broken my heart. I love him so much and thought we'd be together forever, i dont want to leave him but is there any point staying with him when he wont even commit?
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reader, veebee +, writes (25 May 2009):
veebee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your reply baby duck, my friends have said similar things. However on saturday past, whilst discussing our relationship i told him to leave me if that was how he felt and he said "i love you so much so it's too hard." I know he does loves me deeply and is equally upset by the decission we made, but i think you're right, he doesn't love me as much as i love him. I realy am in a horrible place right now and the thought of us splitting up is tearing me apart. He is busy working on a project for the next few weeks so i wont see him, i suppose this is a good time for me to reflect on things. My life is on standstill and i'm not getting on with things i really should. I feel pathetic that i can't sort things out for myself amd i know my friends a tiring of my constant questions.Any further support or advise would be greatly appreciated. Faithfully vee x
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