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He said no when I asked him out, Now he's coming around me a lot..Why??

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Question - (5 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *oveinghim writes:

We were spending a lot of time together and I was starting to like him so I went ahead and asked him out. He said I was cool but he didn't want to be in a relationship. I said that was fine and didn't bring it up again until he started avoiding me and I told him it was not a big deal and he didn't have to avoid me. I gave him a lot of space so that if he wanted to avoid me it wouldn't be hard but now it seems like he keeps coming around me again a lot though he says he's not interested and was acting like he didn't want to be around me.

What's going on?

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (5 October 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntHe probably thought about the idea, mulling it over in his head and somehow, he started developing stronger feelings toward you. Maybe now he might be interested.

I hope that helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

In my opinion, he's just uncertain and this is evident by the game he's playing. If I were you, I wouldnt bother with this man as he's not being straightforward with you. He says things but his actions speak otherwise and if you like a guy and are honest with him about it you deserve to have someone be honest with you and reciprocate that back through both words and actions. Good luck.

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