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writes: What does a guy's statement like this mean......." i dont think that i could ever love her as much as she loves me"im so confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I agree with the below with Learning2Love and he worded it so nicely. I have my own interpretation which prpbably..very similar. When I read that, the first thing I thought is-perhaps neediness on the females part, could've played a big role in this relationship(?). Neediness and dependantlove is unhealthy and it turns a guy off. I think when a statement like this is made, he's saying in a passive, roundabout way..
"I like you but you are overwhelming me with all your love-it's too much and it's scaring me as I'm just not there yet"
The reason I say this, is because this happened to my good friend (and she was 45!) and that is exactly what her boyfriend said to her, after she asked for clarification. He told her she was too dependant. They broke up and she learned something from this...to be her own independant, confident person and not to expect a guy to 'be her life'. So she worked on herself and gained her confidence. That made an incredible difference, in her life.
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (27 November 2006):
 He doesn't love her as much as she loves him.
I don't think he has or is willing to invest himself emotionally to the extent she has.
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