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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently found out my boyfriend of 1 year lied to me about something big (I dont want to mention what), he doesnt consider it a big deal but its not the first time he's lied and my trust in him is totally gone. Im struggling to get back those feeling I had for him before, I just dont believe a word he says anymore, even how he feels about me.... He didnt cheat or anything and other than lying hes a wonderfull person, but how can I continue in a relationship where I dont trust. Is there a way to get the trust back? Should i give him, yet another, chance? Please could people with personal experience help...Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, rubberduck  +, writes (21 March 2007):
my friend is in the same place you are. but years ahead.
she loves this guy, but there are so meny lies flying about at one time half of them get forgotten about. he has her wraped around her finger because its been so long.
there is 2things i would advise
1 get out of the relationship before you get sucked into it. but leave it in a way you can go back out.
2 the next lie ou find out about make a big thing about it and make it clear you are close o leaving. there is a chance this could drive him away but if you doo it right he will get scared ull leave him for good and he will buck up and treat you as he should.
hope this helps
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