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*rightside
writes:my partner of 12 years and father of my 2 children has left me 3 weeks ago he said he loved me but was not in love with me and i don't know what to do or how to move on as i still love him
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reader, brightside +, writes (24 March 2008):
brightside is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for taking the time to give me some advice i really appreciate it i am taking it day by day but i know it will one day get better i've just got to be patient and wait for that day thanks again
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reader, Sir Chaos  +, writes (24 March 2008):
You cant make anyone fall in love with you by convincing them. You need to learn what it was that turned him off. Somewhere in the relationship you changed something about you that attracted him at the begining. Find the problem, fix it, give him some space, after a few weeks try contacting him and work your seductive black magic! In the meantime, dont wait around on him. He broke up with you, so dont be afraid to move on and try other guys. You may find out there is another guy you like even more. Plus, if he hears about it or sees you with another guy that alone may change his mind! If not, you are well on your way to moving on anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Well I feel for both you and "HoneybellO", but you must accept this as a fact of life ...a reality and just 'move on'! I wish you both the best.
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reader, honeybell0 +, writes (24 March 2008):
I really feel for you my partner of 8 years left last weekend we also have children, im finding the best thing to do is try and keep busy if i dont i just feel worse and worse i ve also got my cousin whos been great so maybe lean on your friends and family a bit more none of this is easy especially when you ve got kids to cope with as well but all we can do is take one day at a time and hope that it will get better take care x
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter +, writes (24 March 2008):
Ok, so you agree that you still love each other but he is no longer in love with you. Are you still in love with him as I note it is something you dont mention?
Relationships can get stale over time, you can fall into a pattern and repetition is never going to retain its excitement.
You have to decide if you are wanting to save the relationship or if it has run its course and it isnt worth the effort required to keep it fresh.
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