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anonymous
writes:today i got to know...he is having relationship with amiddleaged married FRUSTRAED woman ..ignored by hr husband family.i know her too .i trust him so much.i m blessed with a baby and she ll turn 4.now i m again pregnant .he is so busy.we didnt communicate as well and i m busy with my kid and family.only MY UNBORN BABY and GOD help me...that he told me everything. i know if someomeelse would tellme this thing.....i would never belive him/her.i really dont know what to do...he has broken my trust so confidently.now he realised that this is biggest blunder in his life.what should i do??? should i blindly trust him again??????i know he loves me too.i even cant disscuss it with someone else..PLZ HELP ME Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2012): Hi,
Its me again.I hope you have been keeping busy and not let negative thoughts bog you down.
I gather that you have decided to stay with him.If indeed you have decided to stay with him,please insist on a STD test for your husband and yourself if you have had intercourse with him after the incident.The other woman could have slept with other guys.That is a whole lot of hellholes.
There is one thing that is confusing me,if she is still living with her husband how could she emotionally blackmail your husband into revealing the affair to you?Won't her marriage life get affected too?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012): Hi, I am caught up with something.Thanks for all the info.I will get back to you in a couple of days.Mean while I want you to do something.
1.Join a hobby class
2.Go for long walks by yourself.
3.Watch a sunset on the beach
4.Go on a shopping spree.
5.Spend time with your first kid.
Remember the baby is very important.Don't let yourself feel sad.keep telling yourself,"I am at peace,calm,happy and relaxed" even if you don't feel it. See you soon.
Female Anon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): she is married..staying with her with her husband&hr kids.(girl aged 20-21&boy 13-14 yrs)...yes it is emotinal blackmailing affair. they had intercourse.when she provoked him.after telling me all truth..he has assured me..not to be with her any mor..actuaaly she is our buisness partner too.but how he can forget me& baby during that time.i dont want see her face.but whenevr i ll meet her what shouuld i talk.i know i ll never forgive her
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2012): I know how you are feeling right now.Trust me.I do.But first I want you to take a few deep breaths and calm yourself.
I want you to answer a few questions please.Was it an emotional affair?Did he sleep with her?Is he still sleeping with her?How do you know her?Is she still with her husband or divorced?
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