A
female
age
41-50,
*Lonely
writes:Why would a male friend, who I've been seeing/talking to for 6 months want to meet you for lunch with your two kids, but not during the week when it could just be the two of you without the kids? It started off very intimate and he persude me. Now, he just wants to meet me occasionally on a Saturday knowing that the kids will be there. He definately pays for the meals, but still why does he want to be there with my kids? He's nice to my girls and makes small talk with them, he even tried to help the oldest one in the car seat. Do you think he is testing to see if he wants to take on the responsibility of getting with me and taking on two girls or do you think he feels safe with my kids there as there will be no romantic expectations on his part?!?! Reply to this Question
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female
reader, MamaBear +, writes (8 April 2011):
My suggestion is to move on in your life. You are too old for whatever "games" this guy seems to be playing. Your girls do not need to be a round this, either. You may be lonely, as you signed your letter, but there are worse things than being lonely. Could he be a pedophile?
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