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writes: i was going out with this guy and things started off not that great at first but got amazing. it was over the summer and i went away to camp and he ended up cheating on me. he would always tell me he wouldnt and i gave him all of my trust. i thought i was over him but i dont think i am. i really just want to get over him so bad, what can i do please! and how can i learn to trust people again. please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): I think you should take a break from him see what else is out there because when the trust is broken its so hard to trust again and when its broken your relationship is not the same you turn into a detective not a good partner
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (18 December 2005):
 I hate it when i hear stories like this, I just want to shake you and tell you to stop being silly!! No seriously, I do know what you mean, it's hard to get over people you love, no matter what they do.
The fact that he cheated tells you he's not worth your time and over time this will get easier. If you let him get away with it this time, where does it stop? What if he does it 10 times but 'you still love him'? You need to move on and find someone who respects you and will make you happy forever.
But I don't think that's the issue here. Not only has he let you down and done something really horrible, he's made you doubt every other guy out there. It's people like him who take the trust out of people like you and then, you never get to be happy again and they go on with their lives back to normal!
Don't let him do this to you, he's hurt you enough. We all get let down by someone it our lives, just hope this only happens once, some people it happens to all the time. Work on yourself for a while, getting yourself back to normal, get your confidence back on the right track and sort your head out. Then you'll be in a better position to make a decision when someone else comes along.
I really do wish you all the happiness in the world. Get over that loser, move on and find someone who deserves you. I hope this doesn't happen again. And just remember, they'll always be people willing to let you down but, out there somewhere, there are some really great people. Make sure, when you find one, that you make the best of it and learn to trust again. Good luck.
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