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writes: Hi,my boyfriend cheated,im trying to forgive him and we are in the process of working things out again,yesterday was his birthday,i didn see him at all and i couldnt call him because he recently lost his phone,i went to his place in the morning thinking il catch him before he leaves but no one was there,i left a note,i know he got my note but he didnt call to say i got it or to come see me since it was his birthday. i feel like hes not serious about working things out,whereelse his the one who cheated at the first place. i dont know what to do or think,why didint he call me.coz i cant call him since he does not have a phone,what do you think happend yesterday and where was he and why he didnt come? please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, bumble bee +, writes (18 October 2006):
it was his birthday and he probably wanted to have a good time. would you want to be reminded of your wrong doings on a joyous occasion? maybe you had no plans with him so he arranged to do something because he wanted to enjoy his day. However i do think he should have called you.
personally i wouldnt contact him, id wait until he gets in touch with you and see how much effort he is making, personally if i ddnt think he is trying hard enough id get rid.
HTH xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): if he cared abt u sweetie he wudntve of cheated on u to begin with..i know its hard to jus let go of feelings that u have for sum1..bu if he can...then u can do it too! as for the note..are u sure he got it..maybe he got caught up wid his mates ( u kno wat guys are like..they are a bit pathetic sumtyms) or maybeee he wanted to call u..bu as his fone is broken he cudnt get in touch..if non of the reasons that i have written measure up to why he didnt get in tuch with u..then i say..u move on for sure!!!!!...u deserve a wholeeeeeeeeeeee lot more betta...every gal does..:) freind x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): ur ryt, he's not serious about getting back and sorting things out. because if he was, you wouldnt have to do anything. he cheated, so if he really wanted to fix things, he should be going to ur house, taking u on dates, calling you all the time, showering you with gifts, reassurance and attention.
get rid of him.
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