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Has anyone else experienced similar pain during sex?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2010)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, *unnie poo writes:

hi everyone I have been having sex since the age of 16 with my b/f who's now my husband yes he was the first guy and the only guy i'm having sex with... the problem is most of the time when we're having sex its just so painfull and when i goes on top of him i feel like their a whole big hole in my belly its feeling like his P**** is in a tub of water something like that but he said that it feeling great for him and it dont feeling like a tub of water or anything like that he said if feeling great and good but i feeling weird ...... To THE LADYS HAVE ANYONE OF U HAD THIS FEELING WHEN U R HAVING SEX....I have seem doctors but their said its nothing to bother about........i feeling so bad when we're haing sex and i'm on top and that start going like that any help will be great thanks a mill

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010):

Well, my gynecologyst said that my vagina is a bit shorter that normal, and I asked her if that could be the reason why sometimes it hurted to have sex...

She told me that it was probably because his penis reached the entrance of my uterus (it's a very sensitive part) that made it hurt. So it was nothing to worry, I just had to try diferent positions...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

my older sister had the same problem.it's just a few things that might be triggering it.1 is weight shift.if u dnt hold yourself properly,your spine will bend awquardly.2 u hav been walking somewhere and your mustles are tired. that's all i hav

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

i feel a similar pain when having doggie style sex, it could be just him hitting your cervix. try a new position

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Have you tried different positions? Probably nothing is wrong with you, its the way you are built and the way he is built that dont match too well together. I think you should stop having sex in painful positions as it will only make you dread sex and put you off it and can potentially hurt your sex life in the future. What about trying things that makes YOU feel good? It is not fair at all that only the man should feel good during sex, and having pains like yours is not normal.

I sometimes get pains too when a man penetrates me too deep! That can happen especially if he comes from behind me (doggy style) or sometimes even when I am on top. Then I have to change my position a little, arch my back further back for example or move my hips differently.

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