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Guys: What do you consider sexy? NOT slutty!

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Question - (9 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I would like to know from the Guys. What is attractive to you. Explain to me an outfit you like to see on a woman that looks attractive not slutty, but sexy..?? More so an outfit that covers her body and is not showing a Butt load of skin either.

Yours truly, Needs advise from the "Adams"..

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A male reader, relly United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

Men are very visual creatures...we get off on things we see long before we connect emotionally. I find a well-dressed woman sexy--specifically a woman in a business suit. I get completely turned on when my girlfriend gets all dressed up for a business meeting/presentation. It might have something to do with our naughty co-worker fantasy.

Outside of that, high heels are usually a plus.

A guy likes mystery...he doesn't want to see everything on display all at once. Give him something to see that will make him want to see more.

Good luck!

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A male reader, Tomas United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

For me, what tends to make a look go overboard from attractive to desperate is (a) too tight, (b) too much leg/chest/midriff, and especially (c) too much makeup.

I find a woman in good fitting jeans and a white T-shirt about as sexy as anything. Something approachable, touchable, feminine but not fragile or Cinderella. A little makeup (gloss?). Subtle. Not seeing her chest, but maybe the nape of her neck (hair up).

Point is I'm looking at things that I'm not sure she wants me too. Micro-skirt? I know she wants me too. Balconette bra I can just make out? Hope she didn't see that. Heck, I'm not a foot guy, but a woman with bare feet gets my attention, because I'm seeing something I don't usually see, and something not obviously (to me) erotic.

Shape, suggestion, subtlety.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

Form fitting clothes are nice, as long as they aren't too tight! I like seeing girls that wear those tops that are loose in the bust area (mystery) and hug the waist. I'm not into jeans that are overly tight and cause the "muffin top" affect. That's my two cents!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009):

I like to see tan lines so anything that shows a little more skin that is normally seen is extremely sexy. The woman does not have to show much more skin than normal to pull off that look. My advice, wear a bathing top get a light tan if you have none and then pick a piece of clothing that shows off the tan line but you view as not being slutty. It should be easy to find something. Guys will look.

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