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36-40,
anonymous
writes:this is for the males out there..well girls can answer too...My hubby wants me to talk dirty to him while we having sex..but im not sure what to say...i mean i know he wants to hear that im loving it and he's going a great job and feels good..but i cant say that all the time...what else could i say?...i really would like help on this...when i talk dirty the sex is alot better and feels great.so any advice would help alot..thanks again Reply to this Question
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reader, WindupBird +, writes (21 September 2009):
 Come up with a sexually explicit fantasy (or one you already have) and tell it to him in detail using the crudest language you can manage (seriously, there is no limit/point where he will be offended when he is inside of you).
and/or
Come up with really dirty ways to describe exactly what you're doing at the moment...this is the easiest one possible. You can preface everything with "I love how you..." then say what he/you are doing but use the nastiest terms possible. Extra points if you yell it and make an intense face to really show him you mean it.
I hope this helps a tiny bit...the bottom line is that "dirty" is the key to dirty talk. That's what your guy wants...dirty...
Source: I am a guy that loves a girl that talks dirty in bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): Just speak your mind! Filthy talk is a pretty essential component of really great sex. Be vocal (your noises can say more than a thousand words). If you can speak at all in between all the gasping and moaning, tell him as explicitly as possible how good it feels inside, and the effect it's having on you. Enthuse about how massive/tasty/succulent it is, etc. Unless he's an extremely unusual variety of male, he'll enjoy your running commentary no end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): simple really - refer to the various body parts in a crude manner, and the actions the same way and insert them into the ongoing conversation. Here's a few words for you to translate to get you started, bear in mind there may be more than one word in the translated version!
make love
breasts
penis
buttocks
testicles
vagina
ejaculate
sperm
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