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writes:hey guysi need some really good advice here coz i doo need ithave u ever felt that ur girlfriend is just too good for u to the point that u would even think that she may cheat on u ? im not a bad looking guy but the problem is not here,my girlfriend is so cute and so pretty ,kind of girls that attract people in the sreet. and i dnt know for some reason i just feel that wayi mean i know that she loves me and she even had way better looking exs ( im nt sayin that lol but its the girls who think there hot ) sometimes i just feel like what if one day she just get sick of me or even the way i look when i get older or something idk stuff like that..i just wonder ,do girls really at some point think how their boyfriends are lookin like even tho they ' love ' them ??i know this sound crazy but i have no idea how to make it right ,its just the way it is but i hope u understand my pointthnx in advance A LOT Reply to this Question
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reader, laz89  +, writes (4 September 2010):
Hey im kind of in the same situation as u my advise is to be strong and try to get that mind set out she is with for areason just be happy that yall are together and make the best u can out of the relationship just keep your head up and just acccept that she is with u and be happy she must have found something in u that the other guys she has had does not.
try to ignore the feelings your having becouse in the long run it can couse problems ur going to worry your self out and thats something u dont need try this is u have not done it have a conversation with her and ask her how she feels about u and if she finds u attttractive give each other complaments sitt and talk tell her how u feel and that should help i hope i been a help to u let me know how things whent .
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reader, Oceano +, writes (4 September 2010):
 When a girl falls in love with you, she doesn't see you in the same way. All serious relationships are more based on personality rather than looks. Don't get me wrong, physical attraction has importance too, just not as much as your ability to keep her happy. Keep confidence in yourself, and shrug all that crap off bro. You make your girl happy and thats why shes with you.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (4 September 2010):
Hi there. No-one is any better than anyone else. We are all equal.
Physical beauty is only skin deep. True beauty comes from within.
She chose you remember. That says it all.
You need to believe in yourself and have faith in the fact that you can have the best in life and can be the best in life that you can be. It's more a case of you not having confidence in yourself. Know that you are worthy, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone. You are already perfect just as you are.
Initial attraction is purely physical, but beyond that the rest is all about the personality and sense of humour and what makes you tick as a person.
Don't worry that you are not good enough. Instead, make your life as interesting and exciting as you can, every single day. Take up some hobbies and interests, have some time with your own friends and just enjoy life and laugh.
Don't forget to be happy and have fun.
Take care and best wishes.
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