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writes:I have been with my bf for a long time, since we have a long distance relationship we have decided not to have sex till we get married, we are going to get married early next year, but i dont know whether i want to go through with it.because mainly i dont think i want a guy who wants me to talk dirty about stuff i hate, i try to avoid talking to him because i dont like it, and i am getting really annoyed trying to act like i like it.i have tried talking to him but it has not changed things. friends have said its normal. but i dont think so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, thanks for the replies.. shall take everyone's opinion into consideration :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): u need to tell him how u feel. he will never know unless you tell him. and if he doesnt understand you then he is definately not worth it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): It is normal. talking dirty takes getting used to if ur not used to it, but if u dont LIKE it then don't do it. You say 'nothing changes' well just refuse to give into it. And if this is all he wants to do then he's really no good. I agree with the previous poster. Really think about this relationship before you turn it into a marriage.. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): Girl, please read the question you wrote. The answer is right there. Those are not the words of a blissfully happy bride-to-be. You didn't even say you loved him. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with somebody who makes you feel that uncomfortable? Even when two people who are head over heels in love with each other, a perfect match, get married, it can be hard and challenging making the marriage work. What do you think are the chances of your marriage to this guy being a successful one? If you feel this way about your relationship now, it will only get worse once you are married and living together. You don't HAVE to get married, you know? In my opinion you are way too young to get married anyway (I'm 25 and marriage is the last thing in my mind, I want to enjoy my life). I think you should brake up with this guy and just live your life until one day you meet a man you will truly want to spend the rest of your life with. Good luck!
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