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30-35,
*hazthechef
writes: Dear Cupid...im new here and need some helpShould i get back with my ex or try with my college mate.Me and my ex (let call him N) broke up about 2months ago, he now wants to meet up and talk about giving it another go. But im unsure, i still like N and our relationship was a good one. But i am atracted to another guy (J)and also N use to do alot of drugs, he tells me that he if off them now but im not to sure.J is a loverly guy i go college with and we have become good friends, but have recently realise i have feelings for. i am also scared that if it went bad with J, things at college would be difficult.?Tanks in advance for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2006): I don't like the sounds of N using drugs and recently being off of them is suspect....and I assume he is not in college with you...
If you like the college mate then see if he might ask you out on a date, try taking things slowly and be friends first to see how much he really likes and deserves you, then you will be less likely to get in over your head with him...it is great to have boyfriends at college, but remember what you are really there for, you and your education, so focus the most on that and demand respect from those college boys!
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