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writes: I have a very good female friend who I usually discuss sex and kinky stuff with more than anything else. We know the ins and outs of eachothers relationships with guys, and recently i've been jokingly suggesting a threesome with her and my bf. She sent me an e-mail declining my offer (which i took as all part of the joke) but at the end she had admitted that she thinks she is probably Bi and as I have probably figured out now she has wanted me for a very long time. Well, I hadn't figured this out and i really don't think that this was all part of the joke as she was saying that she had had sleepless nights thinking about her sexuality and it was all a very heavy subject for her. I e-mailed her back with something very lighthearted and affectionate without mocking her sexuality and neatly avoiding discussing her feelings for me. She knows that I am also Bi, but i am in a loving relationship with my bf. What happens now? Should i pretend it never happened or try to talk to her about it next time i see her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): Be mature and responsible and if the subject comes up, address it.
People have more respect for others who can meet problems head on and work them out.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (27 August 2006):
 Talk to her about it and tell her you support her 100% and there is nothing wrong with being bisexual. But remind her that you are in a relationship and only see her as a friend. I suggest you stop joking about the threesomes because it is very misleading. Good luck
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