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writes:there is this girl i like and im wondering why would she do this.we met a few times (call it dates) we talked shared interests alot of personal information about past life and bf's and gf's etc. one day after church we were havin lunch in this guest house which we were payin for (me her, a guy friend of mines and his sister. after lunch me, her n the guy friend of mine went ot on of the bedrooms to chill out.she went o the top bunk of the bed while my friend n i stayed a the bottom bluetoothing songs from our phones. after we were done he stood up n made a joke with her, she laughed. then he asked her if he could come up? she laughed and said yes. he went up then they began talking. eventually they ended up kissing. all this happened while i was at the bottom bunk (and they both knew that i was awake.after this incident took place he left and went on the porch. later that afternoon i just tried to be quiet and passive because i didnt know how to react. some of u might think that i should be angry at my guy friend. but in all honesty he didnt know hw i felt about the girl (i never told him that i was interested in her) and its wasn't obvious that i had come to the guest house with this girl like a date beacuse the girls cousins n i normally lunch there. so it wasn't a private thing so he really didnt know.that afternoon the girl maybe noticed my passiveness and tried to reconnect with me. i couldn't show any anger because its not like she was my girlfriend. i tried to act normal but i didnt make her laugh as i used to.my thougts are: why we she do this when she knows that i am showing an interest in her? if i ever get over this it would be weird for me knowing that she and my friend were tongue-locking right over me.i still like her but it seemed a tad disrespectful.my question to dearcupid: how should my reaction to this girl be?what should my next course of action be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi "anonymous" thanks for replying
do you really think she would go this far just to make me jealous. (at least a hug or flirt would do).
i feel as if going to her so directly would make me look like a freak.
i dont know it is all a lil confusing
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): Could be she was trying to get a reaction from you or make you jealous. Could you speak to her alone and ask her why she did this, and which of you she prefers?I know some people aren't always honest about such things and this is very direct, but sometimes it helps to be open.
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