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writes: I have been with this guy for four years now we live together and he won't ask me to marry him. Help please, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, zarcha +, writes (17 April 2005):
Well firstly perhaps he is not ready for marriage as this is a very big step in a relationship also alot of men fear this kind of commitment. Four years is along time but if you push him into marriage then you could ruin your relationship. Your relationship seems as if it is strong as you been together for such a long time. I think that you should just be patient. If by Feb 2008 he still has not proposed which i hope he has then you can propose to him as it will be a leap year & you are intitled to do so. There's nothing to worry about just enjoy the relationship at the level that it is at now.
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reader, Tia +, writes (17 April 2005):
Why not ask him then?
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reader, cheyenne +, writes (17 April 2005):
Consider him an honest man with honest feelings. He's WITH you, isn't he? Some men have more dread with the "pressures" of marriage than they do with marriage itself. The more force you put on him, naturally the more resistance he'll have. You don't need someone "out here" telling you how to trap him into this, because that would be the only way I think, you could lead him doen the aisle.Maybe try just backing of the whole marriage thing for a while and see what he does. Things won't change overnite, and maybe nothing will change at all, but keep it up, and you may n e v e r wear his ring.Good luck.
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