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writes:I just don't know why. I get down because I'm single. I'm a guy (24), and I shouldn't feel this way. My few relationships have sucked..... they didn't last too long. I go out to bars and clubs. The girls I thought were for me rejected me. I go out, and do talk/dance with chicks. They're just not my type and I get sad/lonely since I have no one. I feel like I'm acting like a chick, but what should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (22 August 2010):
 You're not acting like a chick, you're a normal guy who needs a little intimacy.
Try meeting girls through house parties, mutual friends, clubs and classes, at bookstores, at coffeeshops, or at grocery stores instead of bars and clubs. If you can find any girls your age at those places, they will likely be of higher quality than the club rats.
Above all, be comfortable with and proud of yourself. Relationships are a product of and enhancer of confidence and happiness, not a prerequisite.
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