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Failure to commit, seems a little too comfy and bored

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Question - (9 February 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *unFoo writes:

My boyfriend and I met, and I moved in with him 2 months later. Now I've been living with him for almost two years, and we are totally in love in a lot of ways. I'm starting to regret having put myself in this situation, I want to get married someday, and he doesn't seem to be in any hurry. I don't know if he every will want to - and I'm living like a married woman! I help with the bills, I help clean and everything else and all of his stresses are mine now too . . . I actually have two questions, one goes along with not being married, and one kind of goes with being married.

1) What do I do to make him want to take the next step in our relationship, even though for him, there's no necessary steps to be taken?

2) After living with someone for two years - how do you get them to notice you naked?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntAs you have said, what is there to do when you are already living as husband and wife? Maybe , you can talk to him to at least make it legal for official matters.

If you want to make him notice you naked, you may try to wear a fig leaf like Eve! LOL!

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