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writes: I really need help on this one, I'm kind of cut up and confused. There's a girl at work who I've longed for for ages and who openly admitted she was very attracted to me. A couple of weeks ago we finally kissed & I was made up - something clicked inside that I'd never felt before for anyone! We met up again and things were going so well until....a close friend of hers split up with his girlfriend and got in touch with her. It seems she still has feeling for this bloke from the past and has told me she just wants us to be friends as they want to make a go of it. I absolutely love her to bits and no matter how much I should hate her I can't. The thing is, do I pour it all out & tell her how I feel or do I wait for a while and see if their relationship comes to a natural end? I couldn't bear losing her as a friend and I really want her to be happy but she means the world to me. I'm so confused I'm just bottling it all up at the minute, what should I do?
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reader, PersonX +, writes (11 May 2005):
Bottling it up is the worst thing you could do. You need to tell her how you feel, if it's too difficult to her face, you could write her a letter or email, or even pretend to let your feelings for her slip by 'accident'.Maybe she won't decide to be with you, or she may ignore your comments entirely, but at least you'll know you've told her and she knows how you feel just in case.If she's worth knowing, she won't entirely stop speaking to you, so go for it!
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