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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with my ex bf for 4 years and i end up calling our relationship quits... i found a new bf and he is everything i wanted except he is not working and does'nt help me with nothing but he is trying his hardest to find a job... my ex boyfriend always crying to me saying he's sorry and wants me back... i would of take him back if i didn't met my new bf.... i am truly still in love with my ex of 4 years but am scared to leave my new bf cause i really love him also.... Now my ex bf found a new gf cause i told him i was staying with my new bf and now am so hurt.. every night i think of my ex but i really dont want to leave my new bf.... i really need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): I've been there before. Looking back, when I was in that situation, I wish I would have just dropped the both of them. Its beens years now and once the hurt begins to subside you realize you needed to change things within yourself; to try and really get to the core of what you're feeling. Sometimes the answer that is the scariest to carry out is the one that will work best in the long run. Of course it's much easier said than done. In reality you never really do whats best for yourself. Only after failure does one truly come to terms with what SHOULD have been done. My advice, spend time thinking about what you really want. Not just boys and warm feelings of love.
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