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41-50,
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writes:I can't get over the pain I feel over having a miscarriage. I am so sad, so disappointed. I had the miscarriage a day after I told a few more people. feel stupid about that. The baby belonged to me and my ex.. I thought there might be a chance between my ex and I but he showed his selfish ways. NOW i see it. He would have never been there for this child and now regret even telling him. He has completely abandoned me, has not called to ask if I was o.k ... nothing. I have never had that much hatred towards anyone, How can someone say they love you and care about you and abandon me when I needed him the most..... because he only cares about himself. My friends have been great, staying over, making me eat, giving advice, etc...How do I move on from having a miscarriage? how do I move from having those dreams for this baby, It is still very fresh and I just don't know how to get myself out of this depression. I don't even feel like smiling, which is not like me at all. Any advice would help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Go to your doctors and get some professional help, you need it now. Forget about him, he was never going to be any good. Gain strength and support from friends. You have had a lucky escape when it comes to him, but i do feel for you when you lost your baby. You will meet someone in the future and settle down and have a family but for now, concentrate on yourself. Get yourself strong and healthy. He is in the past and just leave him there to rot, you deserve better. Have a word with your doctor tomorrow and make a free start to get yourself back on your feet. Sending you big hugs and love.
take care
xx
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