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writes: Me and my ex boyfriend met 5 years ago through a club we both attend. We started dating nearly 2 years ago. Although I am 18 he was my first boyfriend. It wasn't a fantastic relationship; we argued quite a bit, which was my fault. He broke up with me 2 months ago over the phone (!). He is younger than me and just wants to have fun and sleep with other people.I really am trying to move on with my life but I have to see him 3 times a week and it is killing me. I still love him just as much as I ever did but what can I do? Should I tell him how I feel in the hope that we will get back together? I figure if he wanted to get back together with me he would, but I just can't carry on like this. I want him back more than I want anything else in my life.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (27 January 2006):
 You and your ex are still young. And your ex even younger. You can't make him be with only you. Both of you are at a time in life where everything is new and trying new things. He's simply experimenting and enjoying his youth. It's really very young to be in a serious relationship and I think he realizes that. A broken heart can hurt very much. But time will heal your little heart. The best thing to do is stay busy, busy, busy. Join a new club, take up a hobby, or a recreational sport, make new friends. These activities will take your mind off your aching heart until it aches no more. Take care and best of luck to you.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (1 January 2006):
If he wants to mess around with other people then he doesn't want a relationship. Maybe you could avoid going anywhere you might see him for a little while. He's not worth bothering with. You're still young so enjoy life and find someone who wants you and only you
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