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Dreaming of a past love....

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Article - (2 September 2010) 5 Comments - (Newest, 14 October 2010)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, Ibrahim Thomas writes:

She gazed into my eyes with that look I've come to associate with her,those twin beauties all over me as if the life of their beholder depended on the moment. Never did we seem close to caring about the rain-filled clouds above our heads,for we only had love in our minds. I reached out for her smooth palm and held it,which made her smile all the more...oh! How much I loved that smile! "I LOVE YOU" were the only words she wanted to say, but I did say them before she could. So strong was this love,bursting through our very souls and erasing any trace of hate. This same love was never around three years ago when we met at school:how about now,you would say. The rain began to pour and... Oh my God, a dream!

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (14 October 2010):

Hi. Thanks for your nice comments. I really believe you will enjoy that book. It's very interesting and completely relevant.

I felt happiness once I started reading it, within just a few short pages.

Take care.

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A male reader, Ibrahim Thomas Nigeria +, writes (14 October 2010):

Ibrahim Thomas is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I'm really thrilled by your comments,Dorothy. You know,I've always thought I had this writing gift. I'll swiftly get my hands on the book you recommended so I can successfully ignore the past and future,the present being vital. By the way,I'll keep the articles coming. Thanks.

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (16 September 2010):

Hello again. Thank you I'm glad it helped you.

Yes I did enjoy reading your article. It is not ordinary reading, it's quite emotional and very much like literature. Perhaps you should write romantic literature, if you don't already.

It is definitely a very special gift and one that should not be wasted.

Perhaps write these words out for this lovely young lady, who you feel so strongly for.

And she might just be "the one" for you and down the track, you might end up together and live happily ever after.

Of course, don't rush things though. Do get to know her really well before you get too serious about the future. There is plenty of time to think about the future.

Just live each day as it comes, and make the most of each day, don't think about tomorrow. Living every moment totally in the present moment as much as you can. It does take some practise and concentration to do this, but if you can manage to live this way all the time, and don't think about yesterday or tomorrow, everything is much more intense. The important thing is to not let yourself get distracted away from the present moment - which is NOW. Now is all we have really.

I realize that this sounds a bit deep, but I once read a book called - "Your Erroneous Zones", by Dr Wayne W. Dyer, who spoke all through his book almost constantly, about exactly this. About living totally in the present moment.

Try doing this (living in the present moment), and also if you can, see if you can pick up a copy of this wonderful book - it alone made such a difference in my life, as soon as I started reading it. It felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders.

Although I first read it in about 1980, I am quite sure that you could still buy it in a good bookshop, or if not, could definitely buy it on amazon.com.

All the best in the future. And I will look out for your articles in future. Take Care.

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A male reader, Ibrahim Thomas Nigeria +, writes (15 September 2010):

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Thanks Dorothy. I actually wrote that as a little piece of fiction for your reading pleasure. But your advise had helped me a lot,as I've been having a crush on this particular girl lately. Thanks. I also hope you're gonna be reading my articles.

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (11 September 2010):

Hi there. I'm not sure I follow. Was this an actual dream, or did you see this girl 3 years ago (at school), but didn't like her then, till now - when she's more grown up.

Well, I suggest that you do get to know her now. But make friends with her first and find out interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes, music, movies, tv shows etc. But just keep it light and don't try to push things and get too serious for a while.

Just take your time, take things slow and have fun, laugh and enjoy life. Also, don't rush too soon into sex until you DO get to know each other properly. It's worth your while to wait a little while, for that to happen.

Hope this helps. Take care and best wishes.

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