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writes:With Valentine's coming up.. a lot of worry is building up.. Now, I've been with my girlfriend nearly 3 months, and my feelings for her are strong.. but I've not been around her enough to 'love' her.. what if she expects me to say those 3 words.. I don't know what I'm going to do because in previous 'relationships' when I've said those words and not meant them, things have fallen to pieces. Any help would be appreciated x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): those 3 words are important but at a early stage of a relationship like yours, all a girl wants to hear is you saying you care for her and have strong feelings for her and hte more you get to know her the more you like her.
saying care and showing it means alot, they were the words i most wanted to hear not " i'd do anything for you" well my next door neighbour could do anything for me...
good luck and have fun thats what the day is about
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): Well do you mean them? If you do, say them! Simple as =]
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reader, sort it +, writes (6 February 2009):
Easy just tell her you love being with her
but only if it is the case
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reader, truelove +, writes (6 February 2009):
hi, first of all can i just say just because its valantines day it doesnt mean that you have to say 'i love you'.sure us girls like hearing it but!! only if its meant!! we dont want people saying it just because they think its what we want to hear so if you dont mean it dont say it. tell her what feelings you do have for her then she will realise you do care etc without you having to say something your not sure of. x
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