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writes: hi, im 18 and im seeing this guy who's 30 he has a daughter whos 8, he seems really caring but i dont know whether he wants a casual relationship or a serious relationship, and the thing is there is too much people that will get hurt if we are serious and he keeps giving me mixed signals, sometimes he will try it on and other times he is serious, can anyone tell me whats goin on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): Dear Friend,He obviously does not want a serious relationship, he just got out of one, and if someone is interested in you, you will definitely know, don't chase him, and don't spend all your energy trying to figure it out, you're much too young and have a full life ahead of you, do the math, he is twice your age, why would you want to make trouble for yourself, enjoy life, you're way to young to take on so much responsibility, go on and have fun with your life and meet someone who doesn't have so much drama in their life.Best luck to you.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (22 August 2006):
 Hey anonymous,
Is there any link to when he's serious and when he's trying it on? It could be that when other people are around he's too concerned about what they think to be playful, when when they're not around - he's more open? It could just be he's not into public displays of affection???
You could try asking him straight out what the story is, but be careful about laying down all your cards because if he's just fooling around with you, I think you might be upset.
Take care and good luck!
Anon2907
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reader, Tine  +, writes (22 August 2006):
 sounds as though this guy is confused, he doesnt know what he wants. So why not ask him? you'll never find out his true feelings about what he wants and what he doesnt, if you dont ask him. and you can't keep being expected to know what these mixed signals mean
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reader, sugersweet02 +, writes (22 August 2006):
 hes proboly just scard as the daughter already had a mummy she might class you as one to so he dont want to get to seriouse incase you brake up and his daughter dont wantto be confussed, take each day as it comes and keep your head up high, what i think is going on is as you said alot of people will get hurt and you have to understand he has a daughter and dont want her hury either take care xox
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