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*admie
writes: Hi I'm 23 years old and I have a friend of mine who's 26 years old we've known eatch other for almost a years.He lives in a different country from where i live whenever he got a problem i always be the first person for him to be contacted.The other day he asked me out but i did have a feeling for as well and now we conpletely fallin in love.i'm asking myself is he really love me or is it just because i always help him out and he pretends he loves me. please can somebody help me Reply to this Question
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reader, ladmie +, writes (27 July 2010):
ladmie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really appreciat it your help.As a matter of fact he always calling me even he doesn't needs my help.
Thanks again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Sounds like you are a sympathetic person who is a good listener for him. I agree, if he also contacts you when he is happy then he is interested. In love? That doesn't usually happen in a day. It could be an unhealthy dependence on his part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): Did he contact you in times when he didn't need help for problems? If he did, he's worth trying to date, since he asked you out and appears interested. If he only contacts you when he's in a bind or predicament, don't date him, because he'll just leech off of you and use you.
Here's another perspective.. if he contacts you as someone to listen to him and whom he feels he can lean on for emotional support only, but not to use or take money from, then he's asking you out because he really does feel loved by you, and wants to show you his love and appreciation in return.
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