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writes:I don't know how to move on. This is a bit of a long boring story (sorry), I have fancied this guy at work for about 2 years, he always seemed interested but when we arranged to go out he cancelled at the last minute with no explinaion, anyway after about three months we started talking again and getting on well, we just never mentioned the fact he blew me out, anyway we kissed once about six months ago (at work) and since then we have got on alright, I was kinda hoping things might have moved on after that day and on a recent works night out he asked when he were hooking up for a bit of fun, I said I don't hook up and he laughed. Anyway, I have come to the understanding that he is just not that into me and I have been trying to move on but I am finding it really hard, I am trying to avoid him at work but it's killing me because I like him soo soo much and I just want to be with him, it makes my day when we talk, I bumped into him today and he was asking what I had been up to and he said he knows I fancy him, I mean that is so big headed but if he knows that I like him, why can't he ask me out so again I am taking it he doesn't like me like that and is just playing head games pretending to be interested when he isn't, I mean he is good looking and he know it. But how can I get over him, I have tried in the past and even when I go out with other guys all I think about is him, I sound a bit mad but I have never had feeling for someone like this before. Another thing I find strange is that when we are talking he is scared incase someone sees but he talks to other girls and isn't bothered.Any help very welcome as this guy is always on my mind and it is doing my head in.
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reader, eddie34  +, writes (12 June 2009):
 Guys play hard to get, the ones that know the game do that often. He really does like you but it is hard for men to express themselves and get soft. You have to work on it from another angle. The more you ignore him the more he will look for you, this is a good article you should read:
http://www.angelfire.com/music/HmoobPride/Love_Tips/Tips_4_Gurls.htm
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