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Do I love this guy, or just like him? And what's his problem?

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Question - (24 May 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have someone I 'see' but am confused as to how much I feel for him or he feels for me. He is lovely but tends to keep his distance. (I see him every couple of weeks but we talk/txt every week).

I have been seeing him for about 6 months now, and whenever he has had a bit to drink he says lots of things he then disclaims in the morning. This is fine, as he has always been clear he doesn't want to go out with me, but...

I know he has huge commitment phobias, and if he ever did turn round and say he wanted to go out with me I am not sure how I would feel. Am I just hurt that he hasn't fallen in love with me? Or have I accidentally fallen for him? Advice please.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006):

i cant understand why u r attached to him all this time try to forget any thing about him he is a reluctant &u ll have bad love experience if u carry on with him "i sware he ll neglect u &u ll find him selfish if u get more close"

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