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writes: I split with my ex 6 years ago but we have always remained very good friends. I still love him and he says the same. We have been through a lot together since we split, losing parents, losing partners. We have a child together. The problem is he lives with someone else and recently when he comes to my house to pick up our child he has been coming on to me a lot and very seriously, i'm not quite sure what to do. He says he has always had feelings for me and i am the same but i have been on my own now for a few years since i lost my partner and not sure if the sexual attention is the excitement of it or if it is the loneliness that is making me want to take him into my bed again. I am not sure if i should feel sorry for his girlfriend i don't know her but maybe thats why i don't feel guilty about it, i am not sure whether to just have some fun with him and wonder what harm could it do please help think about it if it was your situation what would you do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): you should just go for it. dont always wander for the rest of your life the "whar if's". life is short and people change so there might be somthing there afterall. i would only caution you about the child you share. it would not be a good idea to let your child see this going on because it may give him or her false hope that you 2 will be together. i dont think you would want to do that until you know 4 sure. as far as his lady goes, it is really already over 4 them 2 if he is at your door anyways so dont feel guilty! think about your needs and you just might have some fun!! good luck!
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