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writes:My husband has been working at night in our basement for his second part-time job. Today I went down to use his computer and found videos that he has been watching on You Tube with girls stripping and doing very sexy things. What do I do? Do I talk to him about this when he gets home? Or do you think he will try and hide it from me if I do? What does this mean? HELP! Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (14 November 2008):
 Hi,
Firstly i am thinking if he is meant to be working how has he time to view these videos?
You will have to ask him be suttle about it and see what he says maybe you could suggest if there is a problem and a distraction you could take the videos out the basement?
I always feel it is never a great idea to have these things lying around just to pop on whenever they are a distraction and can become addictive if not careful so a word in his ear will not go wrong and i hope after a discussion he will be fine with taking the videos upstairs for your safe keeping thus allowing him to get on with what he is supposed to be doing downstairs working!!
Ginalolabridga.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): I know a lot of people say "oh men look at porn" but they often look at it when things are not quite right for them in terms of satisfaction or stimulation. Try and think whether things have become stale and perhaps by inviting such a conversation you may be able to talk through his actions. If its bothering you - definitely talk about it otherwise resentment and worry will fester.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Personally I would mention it, but in a light hearted way, I don't think it means anything I just think he's looking, remeber looking doesn't mean touching or actually wanting to do anything about it. Just say that you saw what he had looked at and see what reaction he gives.
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